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No Fireworks, No Second Date

Sometimes, even when there’s no spark at all on date numero uno, good things can come to those who wait. “It takes time if it’s real,” says Weil. “Love at first sight usually fizzles after the initial fire cracker. You need to be patient and let it evolve [if you want it to] last.” So is it always worth going on a second date? Our expert, believe it or not, says yes. She explains that there are too many factors standing in the way of seeing clearly when we first meet someone, making it hard to be objective: “Everyone has ghosts in their closet, so we tend to stereotype and have the tendency to stop a relationship [with potential] before it starts.” So do you mean to tell us you really can’t hurry love? Indeed. Diana Ross never lies. In fact, even if you have serious doubts about a new guy, he may not actually be a frog: Weil says, “Many times the spark can occur after the first kiss.”

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