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Don't Be Afraid to Date Multiple People at Once

If your habit has been to glide from one serious relationship to the next, dating a few men at once after your divorce can stop you from getting too attached to one man and falling headfirst into another potentially dead-end relationship. The way to make this work, says Paz, is to set some sexual boundaries. “Treat these guys like flirtatious friends you get together with for a drink, a movie, an afternoon of rollerblading as you figure out if you’re really compatible and attracted to each other. Maybe you hold hands, maybe there’s a kiss at the end of the date. But that’s it. Most women, once they have sex with a guy, get attached and then everyone else falls by the wayside. So setting physical boundaries in terms of how far you’ll go -- and how fast -- makes it easier for you to date several people casually.”

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