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Make the First Move

You may be nervous about reaching out to let a guy know you’re into him but you need to get past that, says Resnick. “Dating is different than it was 10 or 15 years ago. It’s not a man’s world anymore. There are plenty of guys who want to date, but you can’t sit on your butt waiting for them to find you.” So be bold, make the first move. “A first move is nothing more than starting a conversation,” says Resnick. “It’s as simple as asking someone about the book he’s browsing at the bookstore or giving him an enthusiastic 'Hey' followed by 'I’m sorry, from over there you looked like an old friend of mine.' If you’re online, email a guy telling him what you liked about his profile. Really, it just comes down to saying hello to someone you’d like to know.”

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